Last week I had a vivacious conversation with my friend Amal. – You can have the best conversations with her. She is just amazing! – After I spoke to her, there were a few things that came to mind.
First of all, it’s so sad to see so many girls lose their self-esteem. You’ll see them worrying about what others will think about them. They will do anything for the satisfaction of others.
But just like Amal said: ‘We (girls/women) should know our worth. Don’t look what people want from you. Do what makes YOU happy. Do what makes YOU feel good.”
Believe me, being insecure affects you and holds you back from the things you like to do. You will feel uncomfortable with everything that you do. The solution? Know your worth and you’ll be strong and confident. Focus on yourself, gain knowledge and do what you like to do.
I have seen girls who lost their self-esteem, who were unhappy with themselves. What did they do? They were making different boys their source of happiness. Mostly, it didn’t work out. Let me tell you something. One day – I hope – you will meet someone with whom you will share your life with and who will make you happy. But that person should encourage you and REMIND you that you’re worth it. So, he is not the one who should make you REALIZE that you are worth it.
It’s time to realize that you don’t have to worry about what others will think of you. Stop thinking that you are not good enough, because you are.
Believe me, you are!
Lots of Love,